My sinuses are fucked up because I am sick of this conversation. Dusties primarily found in the U.S. have banded together and formed their own dust mite collation. (Achooo) It’s time to clean and clear. (Somebody pass me a tissue please)
I recently had an interaction with a few men (online of course) that told me what was necessary of a woman to be in a relationship. To make matters worse another group of men on another platform wanted to argue me down about a woman’s standards.
First off, a lot of the male species have been talking too much as of late. Get off the red pill and come back down to Earth. Better yet, find some business to mind and get a bag.
Everything isn’t for everybody.
If you can’t handle being with a bad bitch, do yourself a favor and go find what’s compatible for you. Get out of the baddies face, comments, and DMs. Also, men who can’t even bag one shouldn’t be commenting on anything that woman does. Furthermore, if a man is in a relationship he needs to stay out of single peoples business. Respectfully, stay in your lane. Life is a buffet get what you want and leave what you don’t for someone else who does.
Which brings me to my next point. Date within your salary. If you don’t have the emotional, financial, or physical capacity to date then work on that and circle back later. If a woman likes xy and z and you can clearly see that she is already about that, be ready to invest or go find less! No matter what expense a woman is putting into herself, it’s still an investment. Men want the benefit of being in a presence of woman and then don’t want to contribute. (Another tissue please).
Women owe men nothing.
And the audacity of a man to feel entitled to a woman’s attention simply because he is interested is comical. Presence alone is expensive. Men want to absorb a woman’s time so she dresses up to get to know you. She’s there if you need someone to talk to… but she’s not your therapist. She sacrifices her womanly essence in order to pour into the connection. Why not voluntarily buy her something she likes because you know it will make her happy? What’s the problem with paying a bill so she isn’t as financially stressed, if she makes you feel good? Why not be considerate of her time if she makes accommodations for you? She could frankly being doing anything or anybody else who is adding value to her already well established life.
She’s doing fine without you.
Provocatively… What does she need you for?
-Elle
